A woman dictates before marriage in order that she may have an appetite for submission afterwards.

George Eliot
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This means that a woman who follows all the traditions and customs in her family, and is obedient to her father and mother, will be submissive to the man she loves. A woman must learn to follow her heart and live her life according to her love. Her life plan should not be based on how others will influence her life or what she might gain from following such traditions.

Source: Middlemarch

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